CHRISTMAS BOX ON YA!

overnight, oven omelette

There is something very comforting about the familiarity of long standing family traditions. When I asked my children this year, what is one thing we cannot miss out on for Christmas all most all of them said this omelette. (The youngest will only eat “Humpty Dumpty Eggs”, you know boiled)

I pray for you, that on this Christmas day, you will find peace and comfort in the familiar traditions. I pray you will be healthy and whole. I pray for prosperity. I pray for healing. I pray for peace of mind and that you would dream dreams!

May my Lord and Savior bless you well, today while we celebrate His birth, and always to the end of the ages!

Merry Christmas Friends!

Christmasing

this is not what I expected”

I remember an old photograph I have of my dad holding me up to the “picky” Christmas tree to put the angel on the top. I loved putting the angel on the top of the tree. I felt special as a kid when dad would lift me up (by the waist) to do it.

My daughter asked if she could put the angel (same one from my childhood a little more tattered though) on the tree this year. I asked my husband to recreate a photo of that time from long ago. This is not what I expected!

Christmasing was fun this day!

Well today is Christmas Eve 2020, and as the butterflies grow deep in the pit of my stomach, how in the world did I allow myself to get so concerned and worried about “making Christmas”?

Isn’t Christmas all about God with us? Isn’t it about teaching us what love looks like?

When did it become such a stressor of making the perfect “party experience”. Don’t get me wrong, I think any opportunity to have together time with family and friends is a wonderful time. But why am I feeling so uncomfortable?

I made a mistake a long time ago, trying to make the ‘perfect Christmas experience’ for my children. It ended up becoming a heap of too much stuff.

Don’t get me wrong, what parent doesn’t like “giving good gifts”. I love seeing the kids excitement grow and their faces alight when they discover what Santa brings in his sleigh. I love unwrapping the presents picked out with love by each other. (a little concerned about what Steph “the joker” might of picked out for us this year)

The problem is the worry… did I forget anything?… will they be happy?…. how much did I spend?

Ugh, when did Christmasing become so stressful, that the monster that I worked so hard at beating back to a tiny creature is starting to grow a little, in the pit so deep with in. Squash it! Crush it! Beat it back into submission! No snarly monster’s aloud to ruin my Christmasing this year!!!

Time for a lesson from “Cindy Lou Who, that was no more than two”! Attitude adjustment, a little meditation, a bit of breathing exercise, and onward to wrapping up presents with ribbons and bows, and straightening up the house so Santa doesn’t break any toes!

May your Christmasing be full of the true spirit of great love! May you experience great joy! May blessing after blessing wash over you and yours!

Relax and Get Comfortable!

fun with friends

It’s time to get real! It’s time to relax and get comfortable with yourself! Time to stop striving and listening to your heart telling the same story over and over, relax and have fun, live a little or a lot!

Who cares what other people think? Who cares if you look silly, or your smile is crooked?

What if you danced while waiting at the check out?

When did you go outside and play last?

Have you ever just let loose and been?

Have you ever dressed up, just for yourself and no one else?

Have you bought yourself flowers lately, or a new perfume, bubble bath perhaps?

Have you indulged in something delightful?

Have you aloud yourself to dive deeply into a good book?

Has anyone wrapped you in their embrace and have you let your mind stop spinning with what is next to do and just absorbed the warmth of the love given as a gift to you?

What if you gave yourself permission to let go and just be as if no one else was watching?

Embrace life, embrace joy, embrace freedom, embrace fun, only you have the power to allow yourself to sparkle in absolute delight.

Don’t withhold the brilliance of your essence any longer, BE FREE TO BE YOU!

Simplicity

Like a desire for lemonade on a hot, hot, day, my soul longs for simplicity.

The simple joy of laughter.

The smile that comes from my husbands soul and shines from his eyes, lighting his entire face.

The smell of cinnamon baking.

A light conversation with a friend.

A walk in the bush, with the sun streaming through the trees.

A magical story read with my children.

A brush stroke on a canvas.

Simplicity, my heart longs for you!

beauty without effort

How to make a plan and stick to it?

This is the jumping off point, time to get our feet wet.

Are you like me and have started watching every youtuber to see which goals and how to set up the perfect plan for 2021? Do you get up, make your list, and by lunch time crash and burn in a spectacular heap of too high of expectations and physical exhaustion from checking your list over and over in your mind all night long?

Confession time: My self discipline needs improvement, or maybe I just need to listen to the rhythms of my body and give myself a break.

Living by chance

As I was meditating and praying this morning I read, “don’t leave your marriage to chance.” I was immediately taken aback by this statement as I could hear clearly STOP leaving your LIFE to chance’.

It’s not that I am particularly reckless or endangering myself the way I live, but on the other hand, I am not really managing myself well either.

It’s kind of like these pictures above, my camera is not very good to begin with, then leaving the placement and flash settings to chance…it just doesn’t capture the depth of this piece. It’s washed out, not enough feeling shows through.

2020 was a year to restore vision. To take off blinders and rose colour glasses. To restore clear sight.

It has been painful to see clearly sometimes. As the reoccurring theme keeps coming up, start living, start managing, stop being a ‘blob’ on the face of the earth. Time is not promised, get up, get out of your ‘comfort zone’ and do something. Silence the lies, take a risk, prove them wrong. Don’t stand by and watch your life pass before your eyes. Stretch out and ‘BE FULLY YOU’! You were created for great things.

We cannot ‘control’ what will happen, but we can manage how we react and respond to it. We can set boundaries around what is important and measure cost before taking actions. We can manage instead of living by chance.

We need to start today!

Breaking Bad

take every thought captive! (2Cor10)

How quickly can we get set into the routine of negative thinking and negative speech. I am so guilty of the “eye roll” and the “you know what *** are like” comment. How damaging this can be to the ones we love and to our friendships.

I don’t understand the ways of God or some may say “energy”, but I do know that the bible teaches that the Lord promised Abraham that ,”He will bless those he blessed!” His promises are long lasting.

If we were to stop and think of what our mind is spewing, acknowledge our hurt or frustration, add a little forgiveness, and change our dialog, what would the Lord do? Our dialog toward ourselves and about others!

I am not saying we should “pretend” that everything is okay. No that develops into deep seated bad habits and broken boundaries. I am saying, capture our thoughts before we engage our mouths and release any comment out into the universe.

What if today we patched up the holes that let thoughts escape without consideration? What if we could reframe every thought into a peace to build up?

What if we, “set our minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” (Part of )Col 3?

Where does one find “wise council these days”?

“A wise man will hear and increase learning, and a man of understanding will attain wise wise council.” Proverbs 1:5

If I searched the world, could I find wise council?

As of late I have had an overwhelming desire to surround myself with “wonder women”. Women who seem to have their life together. Family, faith, careers, passions.

I would like to see an environment of sharing, love and encouragement built. Where we could openly and honestly share what is happening in our lives, and the solutions that we have found that work. Not a “bitch” session where we complain, or gripe! But a power session!

Sounds great except, what if they see my life “naked”, they see my fear. What if instead of understanding and encouragement it turns to judgment and gossip.

But what if we could take our individual gifts and talents and build a village on these strengths, so that everyone gains and grows.

The thing about “wonder women” is they don’t advertise the fact that they are “wonder women”, it’s a hidden identity. Sometimes hidden from themselves.

Where does one find “wise council”, a woman with a desire for understanding, seeks?

Balancing act

Power by God———-Love———-Self-discipline

If love it the pivot point, we can not ignore the weight on each end. This is delicate work that takes time, possibly a lifetime to get perfected. This balancing act needs constant adjustments and tweaks.

Have you looked at the scales of your life and checked if you are balanced?

POWER We have the power to do great things, when we come to the Source to be refilled and directed. Have you taken time to stop and be refilled lately? What questions have you brought before the Creator? What issues are you facing that seem too heavy to carry anymore? What problems are you dragging along that you should let go and let God take care of?

LOVE how strong is your pivot? Is it wishy-washy? Do you speak truth in love or are you a people-pleaser? Have you transformed your heart to love in action? What words have you said in anger, what words have you left unsaid? Do you strengthen your love at the Source everyday, do you ask for a greater filling of love?

SELF-DISCIPLINE, how is your motivation? Are you spending time working, flexing your creativity, being present? Or are you hiding in ‘righteous closets’ studying or counseling or just resting up for the next storm?

How is the balance in your life? How strong is your pivot point? Is your effort to move under your own power too heavy? Have you found yourself trapped in sloth, in a disguise of something righteous? Or is your scale so broken that you are full on running away?

Plug into the Source today, take the blinders from your eyes, refill with love so you have strength to move mountains, let’s live! TODAY!

stunning reminders of the Creator

I thought of you today!

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John and Theresa Davidson

I thought of you today Grandpa, third birthday, you have been gone.

Gatherings are not the same, without your rhymes or poems or silly songs.

I really don’t know what to say, you were a big part of my life. I am still upset that you didn’t live up to your promise to make it to 120 and tell me what it was like.

My silly, aggravating, amazing grandpa!

DEC 15, 1915 – JULY 31, 2018

DAVIDSON, John Frederick – Peacefully, at Caressant Care, Marmora on Tuesday July 31, 2018. John Davidson of Marmora in his 103rd year. Son of the late William & Martha (Lee) Davidson. Husband of Theresa (Roy). Father of John (Theresa), Wilberforce; Tom (Lorretta) Cordova; Gary (Sally), Mount Albert; Dan (Dawn) Keegan, Deloro and the late William. Father in law of Rev. Aleace Davidson, Campbellford. Brother of the late George, Fanny, William & Martha Willman. Grandfather of 10, great grandfather of 36, and 8 great great grandchildren